Nouwen Then: Forgotten Gift

Nouwen Then: Forgotten Gift

Our life itself is the greatest gift to givesomething we constantly forget. When we think about our being given to each other, what comes immediately to mind are our unique talents: those abilities to do special things especially well. However, when focusing on talents, we tend to forget that our real gift is not so much what we can do, but who we are. The real question is not "What can we offer each other?" but "Who can we be for each other?"

It is worthwhile making a distinction between talents and gifts. More important than our talents are our gifts. We may have only a few talents, but we have many gifts. Our gifts are the many ways in which we express our humanity: friendship, kindness, patience, joy, peace, forgiveness, gentleness, love, hope, trust, and many others. These are the true gifts we have to offer each other.

Henri Nouwen, Life of the Beloved, from the chapter called "Given"


Nouwen Then: Final Act

Nouwen Then: Final Act

Nouwen Then: Tabling the World

Nouwen Then: Tabling the World