Nouwen Then: Dying to be Blessed

Nouwen Then: Dying to be Blessed

Without affirmation it is hard to live well. To give someone a blessing is the most significant affirmation we can offer. It is more than a word of praise or appreciation; it is more than pointing out someone's talents or good deeds; it is more than putting someone in the light. To give a blessing is to affirm, to say "yes" to a person's Belovedness. And more than that: To give a blessing creates the reality of which it speaks. 
There is a lot of mutual admiration in this world, just as there is a lot of mutual condemnation. A blessing goes beyond the distinction between admiration or condemnation, between virtues or vices, between good deeds or evil deeds. A blessing touches the original goodness of the other and calls forth his or her Belovedness. 

Henri Nouwen, Life of the Beloved, from the chapter called "Blessed" 


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Harmonizing the Community

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